Sunday, November 3, 2013

Very Sad News

I am very grieved to say that I lost Midnight to kidney failure and an unknown infection today.  I can't begin to describe how badly I feel.  She was a gentle, laid back, affectionate, intelligent cat who was very playful and a bit of a tease.  Even though logically I've come to the conclusion that cats don't live long enough for you to spend as much time as you feel you should with, I still feel horribly guilty.  I hate kidney disease!  I've had three cats die from it now.. 

Here are photos of Midnight, who was a source of constant, indisputable, unconditional love.  She loved Christmas trees and their decorations.













51 comments:

  1. meowmeowmansNovember 3, 2013 at 9:50 PM

    We are so sorry for your loss. Thank you for loving Midnight so much, and so well. Sending you soft, comforting purrs and prayers.

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  2. Brian's Home BlogNovember 4, 2013 at 10:36 AM

    I am so very sorry to hear about dear Midnight. We all send you lots of love and hugs.

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  3. SelinaNovember 4, 2013 at 3:24 PM

    OMG I'm so very sorry to hear this. Please know my MomKatt & I are thinking of you. My Siamese brofur had kidney failure, too, and it took him quickly. It's awful. We're so very sorry. Midnight was a beautiful kitty.

    Sad purrs,
    Selina & MomKatt Laura

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  4. MargNovember 4, 2013 at 3:25 PM

    We are so so sorry that Midnight had to go to the bridge. She sure was cute. That kidney disease is no fun at all. You are in our thoughts and prayers and we send some huge hugsl

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  5. Maggie MayNovember 4, 2013 at 3:30 PM

    We are so very sad to hear of the passing of Midnight. You have suffered a great loss and we are purring and purraying for you to be comforted in knowing that Midnight had a wonderful life because of you. Midnight was so beautiful and looked so much like our Saylor.
    (((hugs)))
    Maggie May and The Creek Cats

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  6. GLOGIRLYNovember 4, 2013 at 3:33 PM

    I'm so very sorry for the loss of your sweet Midnight. ...I too lost a kitty to kidney disease.
    Sending you comforting purrs.
    (((hugs)))
    ~Glogirly

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  7. Old KittyNovember 4, 2013 at 3:35 PM

    We've just heard from Ann that angel Midnight has run off to the Bridge. We are truly very sorry. She looks utterly beautiful and from these pics we know she was totally loved and treasured. Gentle purrs and hugs to you all. Take care
    x

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  8. MishkatNovember 4, 2013 at 3:36 PM

    Ann sent us an e-mail about Midnight's passing, and we are sending you many purrs! Please don't feel bad about not spending enough time with her - we are certain that Midnight knows how much you loved her, and we are thankful that she had such a good home.

    Hope you are OK.

    All the best from Katie, Franklin, Tasha, and Dobby

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  9. My Mind's EyeNovember 4, 2013 at 3:43 PM

    Dear Midnight
    Mom and I are so very sorry to read of your unexpected trip to the rainbow bridge today. We send you purrs for your journey and hugs to your family. We hope there are lots of colorful lights and pretty trees over the bridge.
    Madi and Mom

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  10. Agnes B. BullockNovember 4, 2013 at 3:46 PM

    So sorry to hear of your loss

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  11. TylerNovember 4, 2013 at 3:48 PM

    What a beautiful fluffy girl. I've lost two of my own to kidney failure too. It is an ugly robber of our loved ones. Tears are here remembering both of our losses. May her memories bring you peace.

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  12. PipNovember 4, 2013 at 4:01 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. We are purring for your comfort, until you meet again.
    God's Speed, Midnight. I know it is Christmas every day, where you are now.

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  13. CatInTheFridgeNovember 4, 2013 at 4:04 PM

    We're so sorry to hear about your loss. We wish you love and purrs. - Alana & Crepes.

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  14. Random FelinesNovember 4, 2013 at 4:14 PM

    Purrs to you. And safe journey over the Bridge to Midnight. It is hard to lose them...no matter what.

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  15. George The Duck and the HotMBC KittehsNovember 4, 2013 at 4:28 PM

    All of us at the House of the Mostly Black Cats are so sorry to hear about Midnight. W're sending huge purrs and hugs and ducky hugs for your sadness. ~Robyn of HotMBC at http;//georgetheduck.com

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  16. da tabbies o trout towneNovember 4, 2013 at 4:38 PM

    God's speed to you Midnight and HIS strength to your family at this very sad time. We are truly sorry to learn you made your journey to Rainbow Bridge. We hope your mom knows there is no suffering or illness in heaven; and you will live on in spirit until she see's you again. XXXXXX With sympathies from all of us in trout towne

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  17. Seville at Nerissa's LifeNovember 4, 2013 at 4:42 PM

    I'm so very sorry.

    As you might know, I lost my dad on Saturday but the peep says it's okay. She says it's harder for me than for my dad 'cause my dad is up in Heaven now with my mama and my brothers, Desdemona, Callista and Alexander and my sister, Josephine. She says that there are sun-drenched fields of nip there and all the cream a kitty can enjoy with upsettin' the tummy. She says it's a good place where my dad will be loved and loved and loved and know that he's loved, every minute of the day.

    Your Midnight will be up in Heaven now, too. So I figure... they're gonna be okay there for a while. We have empty spots in our hearts, sure, but... they're gonna be okay. And one day, we'll all meet again. Rememberin' that helps a bit, I think. No... rememberin' that helps a lot.

    Purrs,
    Nissy

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  18. The Island CatsNovember 4, 2013 at 5:00 PM

    We are so sorry to hear the news about Midnight. We send you purrs and gentle headbutts....

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  19. ANGEL ABBYGRACENovember 4, 2013 at 5:19 PM

    We received a note from Ann of Zoolarty about the loss of your beloved Midnight. I am so sorry for you loss and also sorry to say this is our first visit on such a sad occasion. There are no words that will bring any comfort to your heart, but know you gave Midnight a loving home and great care.I know it may seem so cruel and unfair but just know the love you had will always remain and I hope that is will sustain you in the coming days. Very soft purrs of comfort.
    *Angel Abby*

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  20. Mickey's MusingsNovember 4, 2013 at 5:39 PM

    We did not know Midnight, but we have lost a special kitty.
    We understand how much it hurts and the emptiness you feel.
    We offer comforting purrs for your loss.
    Purring for peace.
    Peace, Tillie and Georgia,
    Treasure,Tiger, JJ and Julie
    and mom Nancy

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  21. Alastriona, The Cats and Dogs November 4, 2013 at 6:08 PM

    We are so sorry Midnight had to leave you. Purrs of comfort and sympathy for your loss. Our beautiful Whiskers died from kidney failure and we too hate kidney disease.

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  22. Jans Funny FarmNovember 4, 2013 at 6:31 PM

    We are sad for the loss of your Midnight. She was evidently very loved and will be very missed. Hugs from Jan. Purrs and pawtaps from us furries.

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  23. Katie IsabellaNovember 4, 2013 at 6:32 PM

    Rest in Peace sweetest loved little girl Midnight.

    I am so sorry I didn't know you before now but I know you are with my Lady Bianca and my Robin and my Hopping John. Your star will shine the brightest in the sky tonight darling girl. And your family will always have you in their hearts and love you.

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  24. Melissa, Mudpie and Angel Truffles (Mochas, Mysteries and Meows)November 4, 2013 at 6:39 PM

    We are so heartbroken for your loss. I've lost a fur baby to kidney disease as well and it is just hideous.

    Midnight was lovely. Christmas will be bittersweet (for me to, I lost my beloved Tara in July) but the beautiful memories you have of her will be in your heart now and forever.

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  25. PattyskypantsNovember 4, 2013 at 7:15 PM

    What a beauty! We are so sorry that you lost this wonderful kitten! We are having some troubles of our own these days -- going back to the vet tomorrow -- and CRF is the culprit. We are sending purrs and hugs your way. xxoo

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  26. The Lee County ClowderNovember 4, 2013 at 7:16 PM

    Run free, Midnight kittie.

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  27. Laila and Angel MinchieNovember 4, 2013 at 7:22 PM

    We are so sorry for your loss. We know the heartache of losing a loved one to kidney failure. We're sure this Christmas will be very hard for you without your little one not under your tree. (((hugs)))

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  28. katsrusNovember 4, 2013 at 7:44 PM

    I am sorry for the loss of your beautiful kitty. Hugs and purrs.
    Sue B
    Charlie. Cashew, Garfield, Tubby

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  29. JCNovember 4, 2013 at 7:44 PM

    I am so sorry.
    Looks like she had a great time though.

    xo,
    JC and The Purr Gang

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  30. Maggie @ Shelter CatsNovember 4, 2013 at 8:04 PM

    I'm very sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful cat and it looks like she had a full happy life with you. I hope sweet memories of your time with Midnight will bring you comfort soon.

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  31. Karen JoNovember 4, 2013 at 8:09 PM

    I am so very sorry that Midnight had to go to the Rainbow Bridge and won't be with you in person this year for Christmas. You may feel her presence in the lights and around the tree, though. I send hugs and the kitties send comforting purrs.

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  32. ClooneyNovember 4, 2013 at 8:33 PM

    We are so, so sorry to hear about your loss of your special girl Midnight. She is such a beautiful kitty. I lost my first cat to kidney disease and know what a painful process it is. Sending you gentle purrs and will hold you in my thoughts and prayers.

    Be Well Sweet Midnight

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  33. AnonymousNovember 4, 2013 at 8:47 PM

    I did not know Midnight...but she is a beautiful black panther ladycat who clearly loved Christmas. This Catmouse Day, I will think of Midnight as I sit under my own tree admiring the lights and the safety I feel being able to hide under its limbs. Fly free Midnight. Paw pats, Savannah

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  34. Charlemagne and TamarNovember 4, 2013 at 10:45 PM

    We are so very sorry to hear that Midnight has gone to the bridge. We saw the news over at the Cat Blogosphere.

    Sending soft purrs of comfort in your sadness,
    Charlemagne, Tamar and Mal

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  35. OskarNovember 4, 2013 at 11:06 PM

    We are so very sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.

    Hugs,
    Pam & Oskar

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  36. Peggy's PlaceNovember 5, 2013 at 12:31 AM

    Yep. I do believe she did love the tree. And it's easy to see she was very much loved and cared for. Hiss on kidney failure, I've been where you are and send my thoughts and hugs to you.

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  37. bichonpawzNovember 5, 2013 at 1:37 AM

    I'm not sure if my last comment went through, but I wanted to tell you how very sorry I am for your loss. May Midnight rest in peace. My prayers are with you. xo Jeanne, Chloe and LadyBug

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  38. Poppy QNovember 5, 2013 at 2:42 AM

    So sorry for the loss of your sweet girl Midnight. We lost our old girl Puss to kidney disease, you are right it is a horrible disease for these little pussy cats and we don't get enough time with them.

    Hugs
    Julie and Poppy q
    xxx

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  39. The Swiss CatsNovember 5, 2013 at 3:43 AM

    We are very sorry for your loss. We send you comforting purrs and gentle headbutts. Purrs

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  40. EverycatNovember 5, 2013 at 4:16 AM

    We learned from the Cat Blogosphere that beautiful Midnight had gone to The Bridge, so we came to say how sorry we are and to send you love and rumbly purrs. They are never with us long enough, it is true. So many beautiful memories of such a lovely girl will fill the space she left in you soon.

    What a characterful and sweet girl Midnight was

    Mungo & The Ape xx

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  41. AnonymousNovember 5, 2013 at 6:28 AM

    Read about your loss of Midnight on this morning's CB post....so VERY sorry you lost her to kidney disease. So many cats get this - young and old alike. She was truly a beautiful girl - my Sammy loves Christmas too.....lying under the tree, playing with the bows/ribbons....and watching the lights. I hope you have some comfort this Christmas knowing Midnight's spirit will be somewhere around your Christmas tree and you!

    Our sympathies, Pam and Sammy

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  42. Cats of Wildcat WoodsNovember 5, 2013 at 10:19 AM

    So very sorry to hear this. Midnight will be in your heart forever.

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  43. Connie - Tails from the Foster KittensNovember 5, 2013 at 4:17 PM

    With grief comes guilt. They seem to be a packaged deal in almost every case. Acknowledge it, but do not accept it. You loved Midnight very much and did everything with the best of intentions. Midnight knows this, and loves you for it.

    Purrs for you during this very very difficult time.

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  44. IkaikaNovember 5, 2013 at 4:39 PM

    We are so very sorry that Midnight has left you and we send gentle purrs and headbumps your way.

    Run free at the Bridge, beautiful Midnight ...

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  45. AnonymousNovember 5, 2013 at 6:01 PM

    I am so very sorry for your loss of Midnight. She was a beautiful kitty.

    Barbie-Lou Petty

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  46. Vanessa MorganNovember 6, 2013 at 9:12 AM

    R.I.P. Midnight. She was a beauty and she looked so tender and sweet. Hugs.

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  47. UnknownNovember 6, 2013 at 1:39 PM

    This is such sad news. Midnight will always live on in your heart. We send you our sincerest sympathy. Many hugs and purrs.

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  48. possumladyNovember 6, 2013 at 1:52 PM

    I came over here from the cat blogosphere. I am so sorry to hear about Midnight. I'm very partial to black cats, having had four at one time. I am now down to my last one, Oliver. They were all so very sweet and affectionate.

    Take gentle care of yourself...
    Christine, with her charges Sweet Pea, C. Lisa, Oliver, Toby, and Figaro

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  49. Ivan from WMDNovember 6, 2013 at 3:47 PM

    I am so sorry Midnight had to go to the Bridge. Even though I didn't know her, I think it makes me even sadder when a black cat leaves this world for the other. Purrs to you in this very sad time.

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  50. BlackWolf (Adrian)September 18, 2015 at 7:49 AM

    The hardest thing for us is accepting that sometimes the only healing comes from leaving the sick body behind. Be comforted that she went to the Great Physician and was cured in the best possible way for her. You will always have a hole in your heart where her physical presence belongs, but rest assured the sorrow and tears will fade from the immediacy as you get used to "the new normal". Grieve as you feel best, and don't let anyone insult you and Midnight by saying you're "overreacting" or "it was just a cat. get over it". Only you can know what will be best for you. You've lost a member of your family, the same as if you'd lost a human member of your family. When you think of how you loved her, remember she loved you right back just as much. And smile at the dent in the bedcovers made by an unseen friend. I'm sure Midnight will be back sometimes to visit and remind you she hasn't forgotten either.

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